What Code? The Girl Code!

I was catching up on TV series that I haven't been able to watch in a while and there was this episode about the protagonist's bestfriend dating the protagonist's ex-fiancé. Naturally, they had a huge fight about it and the protagonist kept on telling her bestfriend on how she didn't honor the girl code.

What exactly is the girl code? Is it authored by a woman ages ago that the sole purpose of its existence is to prohibit her bestfriend or any of her closest friends to date any one of her exes or the person that she liked/loved? Is it written in stone? Is it notarized? 

On the contrary, it is neither written in stone nor notarized. It isn't written anywhere but probably some middle school girl's slumbook. Yet it is the code that almost all girls around the world stand by.  (Operative word is almost as there are girls who trample the code away.) It's rarely mentioned in a friendship but every girl is supposed to honor it. Just like how you honor the girls scouts' code during elementary school and your sorority's from college onwards. 

If you were in the bestfriend's position would you date your bestfriend's ex or just avoid him for the sake of your friendship? 

I haven't been in this position (thank goodness) but if I were the bestfriend I'd probably lose my mind! It will be tough to decide, because choosing any of them will probably lose you the other. 

Post Birthday Post

This is supposedly my birthday entry, and I'm supposed to post it on the day of my birthday (duh) but I didn't. It's not that procrastination got the best of me, well yeah... kind of. But in my defense, I already made it through a four-paragraph entry and stupidity got the best of me. I wasn't able to save it, and I accidentally closed the application. After the stupid moment, I lost interest in writing everything back again because I know it will never be the same, try as I might.

I couldn't say that the road to my 29th birthday is the best yet, but I know for sure that it is definitely one of the bests! It was a year of transition.. new job, new company, new environment and new set of crazy friends..Hands down, they are yet the craziest!

I'm just very grateful of everything that transpired on my journey to my 29th year on earth, whether good or bad. I'm definitely a believer of the saying "everything happens for a reason", even if sometimes I couldn't help but question the things that has happened to me. 

I know I keep on saying this, but it I feel that it is just right to say that my 28th was the best year yet again. I keep on breaking my personal bests! Life is awesome!

I'm at the point of my life that I don't care about nothing but my family and friends. I never thought that I would be able to live the day that I wouldn't care about labels, but I did! I've chucked out all the labels in my life, material things or not. I just live each day and I'm now more concern of my loved ones happiness (but of course,pretty new clothes every once in a while won't hurt.)